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🕐 ABA Hours

How Many ABA Hours Does a Child with Mild Autism Need?

5 min read  •  By The Match Care ABA Team

For Level 1 autism, most children start with 10–20 hours per week — not 40. Learn how hours are determined and why more isn't always better.

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🕐 ABA Hours

Is 40 Hours of ABA Therapy Too Much for My Child?

5 min read  •  By The Match Care ABA Team

40 hours a week is the upper ceiling from a 1987 study — not the standard. Find out when it's appropriate and how to push back if it isn't right for your child.

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🕐 ABA Hours

How Many ABA Hours Will Insurance Approve?

5 min read  •  By The Match Care ABA Team

Insurance doesn't use a fixed number — it approves hours based on medical necessity. Learn the process, what to expect, and what to do when you get fewer hours than recommended.

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🧩 Early Signs

Is My 3 Year Old Autistic or Just Speech Delayed?

5 min read  •  By The Match Care ABA Team

Speech delay and autism overlap — but they're not the same thing. Learn the key differences, what a developmental evaluation looks like, and why acting early matters either way.

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💬 Communication

What To Do If Your Autistic Child Is Not Talking

5 min read  •  By The Match Care ABA Team

Not speaking doesn't mean not communicating. Learn about AAC tools, the Verbal Behavior ABA approach, and research-backed strategies to support your child's voice — whatever form it takes.

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🧩 Early Signs

Signs of Mild Autism in a 2 Year Old

5 min read  •  By The Match Care ABA Team

Some signs of mild autism at age 2 are easy to miss. Learn the 8 key patterns to watch for, what typical development looks like at 24 months, and why earlier action leads to better outcomes.

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💥 Behavior

Autistic Child Hitting Parents — What To Do

5 min read  •  By The Match Care ABA Team

Hitting is communication, not bad behavior. Learn the 4 behavioral functions, what a Functional Behavior Assessment involves, and how ABA helps your child replace hitting with safer ways to get their needs met.

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📋 After Diagnosis

My Child Was Just Diagnosed with Autism — What Do I Do Next?

6 min read  •  By The Match Care ABA Team

A diagnosis can feel overwhelming. Here are the 5 concrete steps to take in the weeks after your child is diagnosed — broken down clearly so you can move forward with confidence.

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📚 ABA Basics

What Is ABA Therapy and How Does It Work? (A Parent's Guide)

7 min read  •  By The Match Care ABA Team

ABA is the most evidence-supported treatment for autism — but what does it actually look like? Learn what happens in sessions, who runs them, and what goals ABA addresses.

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🩺 Getting Help

How to Talk to Your Pediatrician About Autism (What to Say and Ask)

6 min read  •  By The Match Care ABA Team

Come prepared with specific observations, know which screenings to ask for, and learn what to do if your concerns are dismissed. A practical guide to the most important conversation.

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💬 Therapy Types

ABA Therapy vs Speech Therapy — What's the Difference?

6 min read  •  By The Match Care ABA Team

They're different disciplines that often work together. Learn what each one does, when your child might need both, and how insurance covers them in NY, NJ, and NC.

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📚 ABA Basics

What Happens in a First ABA Therapy Session? (What Parents Should Expect)

6 min read  •  By The Match Care ABA Team

The first ABA appointment isn't a therapy session — it's an assessment. Learn what happens at intake, what the BCBA is looking for, and what early sessions actually look like for your child.

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🩺 Getting Help

How to Get an Autism Diagnosis for Your Child (Step by Step)

7 min read  •  By The Match Care ABA Team

From your first pediatrician conversation to the formal evaluation and written report — a clear step-by-step guide to getting an autism diagnosis and what to do once you have one.

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🧩 Early Signs

Does My 2 Year Old Need ABA Therapy? (Signs to Watch For)

6 min read  •  By The Match Care ABA Team

Age 2 is one of the most powerful windows for early intervention. Learn the specific signs to watch for at this age, why acting now matters, and what ABA looks like for toddlers.

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🧩 Early Signs

Signs of Autism vs Speech Delay — How to Tell the Difference

6 min read  •  By The Match Care ABA Team

Speech delay and autism can look similar — but the differences matter. Learn the key signs that separate autism from a pure speech delay, and why early evaluation is critical either way.

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🧩 Early Signs

Signs of Mild Autism in a 2 Year Old — What Parents Should Know

6 min read  •  By The Match Care ABA Team

Mild autism at age 2 can be easy to miss. Learn the 8 key patterns to watch for, what typical development looks like at 24 months, and why acting earlier leads to better outcomes.

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🌟 Getting Started

My Child Was Just Diagnosed with Autism — What Do I Do Next?

8 min read  •  By The Match Care ABA Team

A clear 30-day action plan for newly diagnosed families: get the diagnostic report, call insurance, contact providers, request an IEP, and more — in the right order.

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⏱ Getting Started

How Long Are ABA Therapy Waitlists? (And How to Get Seen Faster)

7 min read  •  By The Match Care ABA Team

ABA waitlists can stretch 3–12 months in NY, NJ, NC, and CO — but families who contact multiple providers at once, stay flexible on scheduling, and use matching services get seen much faster.

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🧩 Early Signs

Does Autism Get Worse at Age 3? (What Parents Should Know)

7 min read  •  By The Match Care ABA Team

Autism doesn't worsen at age 3 — but this is a real developmental turning point. Learn why behaviors often intensify around age 3, and what you can do to support your child through this transition.

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💬 Communication

ABA Therapy for Nonverbal Children — What Parents Should Know

7 min read  •  By The Match Care ABA Team

ABA is one of the most effective tools for nonverbal children with autism. Learn how Verbal Behavior approaches, Functional Communication Training, and AAC devices help your child find their voice.

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📋 Insurance

How to Appeal an Insurance Denial for ABA Therapy (Step by Step)

8 min read  •  By The Match Care ABA Team

A denial isn't the final word. Learn the exact steps to appeal — from requesting the denial letter to filing an external independent review — and the language that makes appeals succeed.

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🏫 ABA Basics

Can ABA Therapy Be Done at School? (What Parents Need to Know)

7 min read  •  By The Match Care ABA Team

ABA at school and private ABA are two separate systems — and your child may be entitled to both. Learn how school-based ABA works, how it differs from private therapy, and how to get each.

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